Valentine's day

valentine's day has just passed.....february 14.....it was a day when lovers express their love for each other by means of jewelleries, flowers, chocolates or everything extravagant,...or it can be a simple gesture of love such as taking a walk in the park, or just spending quality time with each other or simply by being extra romantic on that special day..or so it seems..

valentine's day is so overly publicized and commercialized that people are beginning to forget the true meaning of valentines day...although the history of valentines day is still shrouded in mystery but february is still the month of romance..valentines day doesnt have to be for lovers only..it can be to family, friends and even pets...hehe... everyone deserved a little bit of love...if only lovers are allowed to celebrate valentines day what about the single people around the world??? that is just so unfair for them rite? anyway, back to what i was saying, valentines day is so commercialized that everywhere we look prices are way too high for a small bundle of flower and  restaurants even charge higher price for that one day.. all in the name of LOVE....lolz....that is just cut throat...

okay..so u say money is nothing compared to love...and you dont care how much money you spend to go to that high end restaurant in town on vday....as long as ur happy but on february 15 u'll be wondering where the hell did all ur money disappeared to...seriously... im jst saying that u dont need to impress ur partner by going to expensive restaurant and by giving rili expensive gifts unless you can actually afford it..so if ur the type who still rely on ur parents to pay for your food or those who rely on scholarships then dont try to act high and mighty by giving things u cant afford in the 1st place. ur partner loves u for who u are and not what u can give to them. giving is a nice gesture but there's a limit to it.. the most important thing is the love u have for each other is true.

so to the ladies out there, do ponder on this thought: if your guy bought u something nice for vday its good,....lucky you..and im guessing that u'll be in cloud nine now.. but for those who didnt get anything on vday.. dont be sad or mad etc..he may have some reason for not buying u a gift..maybe u'll notice that he's paying more attention to what u say and spending extra quality time instead of playing games 24/7..u might not notice that cos ur busy waiting for the bling bling or a bouquet of roses which didnt appear on vday... 

and for the single ppl out der....enjoy life while u can..being loved by someone special is nice but there is so little "me time" after that...so enjoy doing anything u want with ur frens without having to report to him or her where u went everyday..and u can still drool over that oh-so-handsome guy in ur class without feeling guilty..;p

so happy valentines day peeps....

and to those who didnt have an enjoyable vday this year, may u have a better one next year..:) 

-spread the love peeps-

ane ;p